www.japancupid.com
レビューの日付:2010年5月16日
インターネットの出逢い系サイトの中で、ジャパンキューピッドが非常に注目を集めている。でも、サイトが優れているから皆が使っているわけではない。サイトを運営しているキューピッドメディアが、数多くの「この国の人とデートしたい」というようなサイトを出している。
このサイトの特徴は二つ。
①運営している会社がオーストラリアだから、日本の会社が提供しているサイトより欧米人のメンバーが明らかに多い。しかし、「日本人専用」というように広告しているので、日本人に妙にこだわっている男性ユーザーが殆ど。おおざっぱに言ってしまえば、「大和撫子」を探しているタイプと、「イエローキャブ」を探しているタイプが非常に多い。確かに数多くの欧米人が登録しているのだが、付き合いに値する男性はあまりないのもまた事実だ。
②出逢いサイトの割には歴史が長い。だから、コミュニティーがある。しかし、出逢いサイトというわけで、「助け合う」ようなコミュニティーではなく、「競争し合う」ような弱肉強食弱という雰囲気が漂っている。
では、もうちょっと詳しくサイトの仕組みを見ておこう。
ジャパンキューピッドの詳細
- 登録は無料だが、無料アカウントで有料アカウントを持っている人としか連絡をとれない。
- 英語訳も日本語訳もある。個人設定に予定、利用する言語は切り替え可能。
- 連絡の取り方は、サイト内メールとサイト内インスタントメッセンジャーとなっている。
- ジャパンキューピドのインスタントメッセンジャーはいろいろな不具合があって、非常に使い辛い。メールの方が全然安心。
- 写真が付いているプロフィールの方が優先。
- match.comとか他のサイトと違って、誰が誰にどのぐらい連絡をとっているのかは全く隠している。貴女とやりとりしている男性が数十人の女性にメールを送っているのか、それとも貴女だけにメールを送っているのか調べることが出来ない。
- このサイトに男性のさくらはたくさんあるらしい。メンバーシップが切れると、直後美男子から連絡が来るようになっているみたい。もちろん、その連絡を読むため、もう一度サイトにメンバー料を払う必要がある。これはサイトの数人の女性メンバーから聞いた話だ。
- デートしたい人に出会ったら、プロフィールを終了にする機能は揃っているものの、とんでもない男性はプロフィールを終了にしてから、別のアカウントを作る癖がある。だから、この機能は安心できるような機能じゃない。
- メンバー料金が他のサイトより高い。
広告から分かること
また、こういうこともある。2010年5月にジャパンキューピッドからメールが届いた。件名が「View Bikini Babes Now」(今水着姿の美人を見よう!)だった。中身は、キューピッドメディアという会社の他のフィリピン人専門サイトの宣伝だった。そのメールの中に、可愛い子のビキニ姿の写真が入っていた。そして、このような文があった。「こちらの美人さんは皆我々が提供しているサイトのメンバーで、是非使ってみて下さい。」
まあ、僕は女性のビキニ姿にあまり文句はないが、会社がこのように広告を出しているとなると、真面目な男性は去ってしまうかもしれない。そして、残りの男性はどのような男性かと言えば、言うまでもなく、ビキニにしか目がない奴ばかりになってしまう。
まあ、そうなると会社としては儲かるかもしれないが、ユーザーの満足感はどうなるだろう。
CupidMediaについて
オーストラリアの会社CupidMediaがジャパンキューピッドを運営している。実は、このキューピッドメディアという会社は、数多くのエスニック専用サイトを提供している。日本人向けのサイトの他に、中国人向けやタイ人向けやアメリカ国内の黒人向けやアメリカ国内のラテン系向けのサイトなどなど、合わせて数十のサイトを出している。
全てのサイトのテーマが、「この国の人(もしくは「この人種の人」)と付き合うためのサイト」ということだが、これを問題に感じるのは、僕だけではないだろう?デートの相手のことであれば、人種や国籍より大切なことはたくさんあるはずだ。そもそも、サイトを人種や国籍で分け、「日本人に興味のある方はこちらへどうぞ」と丁寧に言われても、やっぱり違和感がある。このような広告のやり方だと、日本人にハマっている奴しかこないおそれがある。
この傾向はキューピッドメディアのサイトそれぞれの料金制度にさえ反映されている。全てのサイトのインタフェースは全く同じものの、二つ以上のサイトを利用したい場合はメンバー料金を別々に払わなければならない。だから、サイトの構造によって、最初の段階で自分が好きな人種もしくは国籍を選ばなければならない。
ジャパンキューピドの評価
僕はこのサイトの女性メンバー数十人と話したことがある。残念なことに、話してくれた女性の話によると、殆どは嫌な経験を少なくとも一つしたことがあるらしい。
東京に引っ越してから実際二十人ぐらいの利用者に会った。その時僕は友達探しというつもりだったが、相手の殆どは恋人探し。しかも、「必死に」探している人が多かったような気がした。あまり良くないことだが、男性としての印象を正直言ってしまうと、焦っているからすぐ寝てくれるということになるだろう。
もちろん、それらの出逢いの中で良い人も数人いた。もはや1年間半になるのだが、僕らの友情はまだ続いている。それはそれでとても嬉しい。でも、「サイトがきっかけだったが、サイトのおかげとは言えない」としか言えない。良い人に出逢うまで、迷惑な連絡を我慢する必要があったし、嘘つきを見抜く努力もたくさんした。さくらだけならまだしも、遊び目的と嘘で遊んでいる人や、いきなり連絡なしに消滅する人も多かった。
上記の理由を考えて、あまりこのサイトを勧めることができない。六本木のバーとあまり変わらないので。
しかし、バーなら、友達と一緒に行けば、嫌な人が近づこうとする時、簡単に避けられる。ネットの人に実際に会うような話になったら、そう簡単にはいかない。
How many women on here want
How many women on here want to have sex?
Let me know your ID on JC and I will send you a message.
Instead of Japan Cupid they
Instead of Japan Cupid they should call it "Japan Cab" ......
What about Instant Japanese
What about Instant Japanese Health Delivery?
liar
Samuel (34)この黒人さんはMarioと言う人物の写真使ってます。騙されないでね〜
Go to hell nobody cares. He
Go to hell nobody cares.
He dumped you because you are ugly and old. Deal with it.
この人本物?
Marc ID: 1294858
画像検索ししたところ。。。Marc Fitt と同一人物でしょうか?何故日本にいるのか?かなり怪しいです
フェイク写真
99.99%勝手に写真を盗用してるんだと思います。
プロフページ左にある不審なメンバーのボタンを押し、必要情報を入力してJCにレポートすると数日以内に写真が削除されます。ありえないと思いますが、もし本人であれば写真はそのままなので、フェイクかどうかの判断も出来ます。
私は昨日、59歳のブラッドリー・クーパーをレポートしました。
Have fun talking to fake guys
Have fun talking to fake guys :)
This guy haha crazy
blocked blocked blocked...
haha!you are block mania.
why don't you block all JC girls?
Why don't you kill yourself?
Why don't you kill yourself? Japanese whore.
Why don't you kill yourself?
Im a men,dude
so Why don't you kill yourself?
Hahaha
Hahaha
This girl haha crazy
So this Tomoe girl sends me interest and a message:
Hi,
I read your profile and am interested you saying you have strong direction in life.
Can I get to know you more?
Hope to hear from you.
Tomoe
Me:
Hi Tomoe,
Thank you for your email.
You have LINE? feel free to add me ********
I hope to talk soon!
Yoroshiku ;-)
Tomoe sends me email again:
Hi, thanks for showing me an interest too:)
Um, before I add you on LINE, I'd like to know more about your "strong direction", where it starts and where you are heading.
And tell me what you like to do on your day off please. Another hint of you.
Hope it doesn't sound demanding. But I'm here to meet meet people whatever a relationship will be. Sorry I have some sort of strong ideas of my life too;)
Hope to hear from you!
Me:
Is this a job interview?
Goodluck Tomoe.
*blocked*
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What the fuck? You show me interest and send me mail and I have to explain myself?
Is this a fucking job interview? So annoying.
Does anyone have a simular experience?
Yes. It happens to me as
Yes. It happens to me as well.
I also get the ones that say are looking for their "soulmate" (I hate that word) but then want to send 100 emails back and forth before meeting.
It seems they are only interested in English practice.
Haha yes! What I hate the
Haha yes! What I hate the most is "Can you make me happy?"
Take resonsiblity women! You are responsible for your own happiness.
I tend to block people with those headlines.
CAN YOU MAKE ME HAPPY?
Can you make me happy?
CANYOU MAKE ME HAPPYh?
CaN YoU MaKe Me HaPpYh?
C a n y o u m a k e m e h a p p y?
CANYOUMAKEMEHAPPY???????????????
Whatever major looser! LoL
P.S CAN YOU MAKE ME HAPPY? smash
I wonder if any of the
I wonder if any of the Bitches on here can "make me happy".
Can you make me happy?
Can you make me happy? Please!!!!
Can you make me happy?
Only I can make you happy! baby!!!!
It's Smash not smash. You
It's Smash not smash.
You silly old women.
Revenge
Hi this is Eddy Pasterino.
You want us to go away? Stop post?
Then stop harrass us gaijin.
Don't post links to email, id, facebook and other private information.
This is revenge.
And you know what they say: revenge is a dish best served cold.
The Japanese bitches that
The Japanese bitches that post on here have some real issues.
Pay back sucks. They are obviously feeling it now
They are bitter and
They are bitter and frustrated. Nobody wants them.
It's always the fault of the men. They are liars, cheaters and scammers.
Haha.
私はまだこのサイトで知り合った男性と実際に会った事が無いの
私はまだこのサイトで知り合った男性と実際に会った事が無いのですが、偶然にもリアルでの知り合いを3人も見つけました。3人とも別の場(国際交流会等)で知り合いました。そのうちの1人は遊び人です。私の印象もあまり良くなくて、ここにも何度か名前が出ていますが、体目当て等の書かれている内容もほぼリアルな本人像と一致していて、やっぱりという感じです。
サイトでは年齢を大分若くごまかして登録しています。
他の2人は、真面目で控えめな良い人達で、1人はランキング上位の一桁台にいますが全くプレイボーイではないし、常識的な優しい男性で、ルックスもとても良いです。この2人のプロフに嘘は無く、真剣に友達や交際相手を探しているのだと思います。
やはりここで何度か名前が出ている人は、リアルで知っていてもあきらかに何か問題がある人だと思います。ですので、ひき続き参考にさせて頂きます。
地獄に落ちる
地獄に落ちる
すみません、つい誰だろう?と想像してランキング上位一桁をチ
すみません、つい誰だろう?と想像してランキング上位一桁をチェックしてしまいました。うち4人は海外で除外。のこり5人のうち大阪はも除外。JPはここには書かれたことないけど、他で情報を何度も見たし、残りでとてもルックスが良いって??分かりません :)
口コミサイトでは、JCの人気ランキングは人気ランキングと言うか、手間ひまかけてメールや好意やクリックを送りまくった人たち(たとえ容姿や条件の良い男性でも本人が何もしないであのランキングにのるのは不可能)のランキングと言われていて、特にランキング上位は間違いなくメールや好意をばらまいていると思われるので、(現に私自身もJPからはもう何回も、他にも好意をもらった男性が含まれているので、) 常識的で優しい真剣に交際相手を探している男性、と聞いて、う~ん?と考えてしまいました… haha
個人で情報を持たれてる場合もあるので、情報に出ていない時も情報を募れば出てくることもありますよ!
海外の人です。私も直接の知り合いで、共通の知り合いが10人
海外の人です。私も直接の知り合いで、共通の知り合いが10人位いるのですが、外国人の割にどちらかというと真面目な人だと思います。独身男性がいろいろな女性に好意やメールをたくさん送るのは、交際相手や友達を探している間は、問題無いと思いました。ここでも一度も名前は出てないみたいです。
誰かを追求する気はないのですが。。
該当する男性が海外在住と聞いて、さらにビックリです。
59歳の方とドイツの方は全く知りませんが、それ以外の2人は、ここで書き込みがあったかは定かではないですが、他のサイトで、特にIDが古い方の人は何度も何度もエロ目的の変な男だという情報を見ました。
知らない方のためにこれまでの2人の情報を残します。
No.1 shisa 40
エロい内容のみのメールを何度も送りつけてきます。以前は文章でしたが、最近はエロ単語のみのメールを同時に複数送ってきます。好意ももちろん同時に送信してきます。これが彼がNo.1にいる所以でしょう。
No.9 James 39
この男は以前かなり話題になっていました。かなり長期間ずっとランキング一桁。とにかくメールもチャットもエロい内容ばかり。一度コネクトするとその後度々自分のエロ画像を送りつけてくる。3Pに誘う、要求する。プロフの写真と現在の本人はかなり違っているようで、年齢は5~10位詐称しているとのことでした。ただエロオンリーだというだけで、性格が悪いとか嫌な人間とかは書いてなかったです。
ルックスの良し悪しは好みや写真写りの問題もあるし、私はどちらともまともにコンタクトを取ったことも会ったこともありませんので、何とも言えませんが、書いてくださった男性のこと.. 真面目で控えめな良い人、プレイボーイではない、常識的で優しい、ルックスがとても良い、プロフに嘘がない、そして真面目に交際相手を探している男性は、JCでは貴重な存在でしょう。真面目の基準は日本とそれ以外の外国ではかなり違うにしてもです。しかも、そんな男性がランキング一桁にいたことに驚いています。もし該当の男性が上記の2人のうちのどちらかであったら、私はその男性の認識を改めなくてはいけないかも..です。
あと、これは個人の考え方の違いなのでどっちがどうということではないですが、友達を探してる方はともかく、真面目に交際相手を探してる男性が、ランキングに載るほど沢山の女性にメールや好意を送るのは、誰でもいいんだなぁ.. と私自身はかなり萎えます。
横入りですみません
たった今
Jake 35ワシントン在住Serious men speaks japanese
という日本語ぺラペラ自称デザイナーから
返信1日遅れただけで、だからあんたは独身なんだよ!!ってメールが。この方日本人ではないでしょうか。。。大変いやな思いをしました。
皆様どうぞ要注意です
情報ありがとうございます。 最近ですが、わたしその人と連絡
情報ありがとうございます。
最近ですが、わたしその人と連絡とっているかもしれません。
それまではすごく甘い言葉囁いてましたか?
もちろんエロメールの2人ではないですよ。でもエロメールでも
もちろんエロメールの2人ではないですよ。でもエロメールでもランキング入りするんですね、ブロックされたりしないのでしょうか。その2人とは、かかわっても時間の無駄ですね。ありがとうございます。
私が偶然見つけた知り合いは、日本在住で登録していますが、プロフを読むと海外在住だと書いてある人です。ランキング入りする程いろんな女性にたくさんメールを送っているのかも知れませんが、彼なら女性からのアプローチも相当多いと思いますし、友達にはなれたとしても交際までのハードルは高いのかも知れません。飲み会では男性とばかり話していて、話しかけるのはいつも女性からという感じでした。
何も悪い事をしていない知人をここで晒し者にするのは忍びないのでこれくらいにしておきます。
もう1人の知り合いも、とてもよく知っている人ですが、明るくて社交的でまめで真面目な人ですが、恋愛対象にはなりにくいタイプだと思います。
それから、この2人のプロフに嘘はないと書きましたが、年齢を2,3才ごまかしているかどうかまではわかりません。ただ、私が聞いた年齢とは一致していて、2人とも個人的に共通の知人がたくさんいます。
そうですよね〜
ここの情報では珍しく、お知り合いの方からの好人物男性の情報です。
彼に好意があってランキングが気にならない方は、ライバルも多いんでしょうし本人も軽い方ではないようなのでハードルは高そうですが、アプローチするのは良いかもしれません。少なくとも上手くいかなくて落ち込むことはあっても、酷い目に遭うことはないはずです。
もうひとりの男性がどうして明るくて社交的で真面目なのに恋愛対象にはなりにくいタイプなのか不思議ですが、何にしろ2人の男性の情報は、ここを見て悪い男の情報ばかりインプットされている女性には、JCだって悪い男ばかりじゃないと思える朗報だと思います。
先に書いた男性情報の追記なのですが、shisaは結構新しいIDですが、少なくとも1年前には既にいて、途中で今のIDに変えています。
訂正:外国人の割りに大人しくて、真面目な人だと思います。(
訂正:外国人の割りに大人しくて、真面目な人だと思います。(だから日本人と合うのかも知れません。)
お願いします
管理人様、お願いします。
ここを元の形に戻してください。
男性が書き込みしたければ、男性用のトピにさせてください。
酷くなる一方です。
英語や男性からの書き込みには一切反応しないようにして、私達
英語や男性からの書き込みには一切反応しないようにして、私達だけで情報交換を続けましょう。
Hi I'm the manager Eddy
Hi I'm the manager Eddy Pasterino. Thank you for contacting me.
We can not delete it.
You lonely old women can go somewhere else.
Eddy Pasterino
Some funny
Some funny stuff
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jBFVebnG3-k
that video was really boring
that video was really boring haha
"New survey results compound
"New survey results compound previous findings with the news that 46% of Japanese women admit to cheating on their partners.
The survey, conducted by StyleWalker, asked 2,000 Japanese women in their teens and twenties “Have you ever cheated on someone?”
23% confessed to some prior acts of infidelity, giving the usual creative excuses or remorseful vows never to do it again until the next time.
A further 9% admit to “unintentionally” cheating, giving such highly convincing excuses as “I was dating someone, but he confessed to me and I couldn’t refuse…” and “I fell for someone else even though I was dating him.”
4% actually acknowledged they were currently cheating on their man, some even with more than one person…
However, 54% of women asked would not admit to cheating on their partners, though whether this implies innocence or discretion is certainly open to question.
These results seem extraordinarily similar to another, previous survey; that put the proportion of cheating women at a close 45% of the total, suggesting the results may be quite reliable."
"10 things foreign guys do that make Japanese girls fall head over heels
By Steven Simonitch
Lifestyle Jul. 10, 2012 - 05:47AM JST ( 222 )
TOKYO —
While marriage rates in Japan have been declining overall, a growing number of Japanese women seem to be giving up on their male counterparts and dating foreign men.
So what is it about foreign guys that draws Japanese women to them? Kanae Hara at Gow Magazine writes: “Just this year, I’ve had one friend get married to an American and another to an Australian. Both of them moved overseas with their partners. They both tell me that foreigners are more expressive with their love and make them feel happy to have been born a woman.“
Hara continues by sharing 10 ways foreign guys express their affection that make their Japanese girlfriends fall head over heels. We’ve translated the list below, so be sure to take notes if you’re looking for some pointers on how to woo a Japanese girl!
1. A real proposal
“His proposal was amazing! He actually got down on one knee and, while looking straight into my eyes, said: “Will you marry me?” Then he handed me a diamond ring!” (31-years-old/Japanese, 34-year-old/English)
2. Flattering text messages
“His texts always start with ‘To the most beautiful girl in the world’. I think being able to use a phrase like that naturally is something only foreigners can do.” (26/Japanese, 29/Spain)
3. Makeup flowers
“He sends a bouquet of flowers to my apartment or work after we get in a fight. It’s embarrassing but I think it’s sweet.” (29/Japanese, 27/English)
4. Mornings just like in the movies
“On days off he makes breakfast for me while I’m still in bed and wakes me up by kissing me while saying ‘Hurry, I want to see myself in those beautiful eyes’. It’s like something from a movie scene, I never thought I’d experience it myself.” (33/Japanese, 37/French)
5. A flower for every occasion
“Our first meal together, the first time we held hands: he uses every ‘first’ we share as an opportunity to slip me a flower.” (30/Japanese, 28/Greek)
6. Leaving his love in a letter
“Since he has to leave for work early in the morning, he always leaves me a letter with a short message. I feel his love for me in his handwriting.” (28/Japanese, 26/Chinese)
7. Saying “I love you” on the phone
“He always says ‘I love you’ before hanging up the phone. I still haven’t gotten used to it and it’s embrassing.” (29/Japanese, 26/American)
8. The first and last bite
“He’s so kind, it drives me absolutely crazy for him. I was especially surprised at how he always gives me the first and last bite when we share food.” (32/Japanese, 27/Korean)
9. Eat, sleep, breathe, kiss
“He kisses my over 10 times a day while whispering words of affection. It’s just natural for him.” (36/Japanese, 32/Italian)
10. Pet names
“There are many different words to express affection in his language. Even when simply addressing me, he tenderly calls me ‘my love’ or ‘my treasure’. (34/Japanese, 38/French)
By contrast, Japanese men are known for being shy and inept at expressing their feelings to women. Therefore many Japanese women fear that dating a Japanese man will bring them a life of monotony, with no romantic proposals (some Japanese men propose by asking “will you make me miso soup for the rest of my life?”) and never once being told “I love you”.
So what do you guys and girls think? Are Japanese girls getting too worked up over cheesy romance or should Japanese guys start taking lessons before it’s too late?
Source: Gow Magazine
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"This time I like to talk about infamous "Yellow Cab".
About 20 years ago or so,
there was a rumor in Japan that
Japanese girls were called "Yellow Cab" in U.S.,
which meant anybody could get a cheap and easy ride.
I had never heard such a thing in New York city.
However, it was true and still is true that
some Japanese girls are acting like big sluts
for White men and Black men in this city.
Here in New York city,
many Japanese girls who date with White men or Black men say
they did not come to U.S. to look for boy friends and
it was just a coincident for them to meet White or Black men
and fall in love.
Really?, then why do all Japanese girls
who date with non-Japanese men date with Whites or Blacks?
I have never seen Japanese girls date with Arabs or native Mexicans.
This means they obviously choose men.
And if they choose them, it is hardly a coincident.
At least a part of the reason they come to U.S. is
to hunt White or Black men if it is not all.
Not only in New York but also in Japan
it is a well-known fact among male Gaijins
that it is easy to find Japanese girl friends
because they do not have to go to girls, girls come to them.
When I lived in Tokyo, I met a male Gaijin who had said
that he had been doing "Hyakuningiri" and it was almost accomplished.
"Hyakuningiri" means that a Samurai slashs and kills 100 men
with his sword.
So guess what it meant for him.
I also met a White guy in New York, having been in Japan,
who said that Japanese girls looked very shy
but they were sexually very agressive.
"Japanese women invited me to their apartments and cooked for me,
and after that they fed their bodies to me too."
I also met a very nice looking Black guy in my neighborhood gym,
and he said that Japanese girls were oriental delights.
I bet many Japanese girls made a line in front of his door,
he was a gorgeous looking guy.
A few years ago, I was walking down the 8th street,
and recognaized two Japanese girls in very elaborated fashion
walking in front of me, who appeared to be early twenties.
When they stopped at the trafic signal,
I stopped right behind of them.
Then suddenly an Italian looking White guy came and talked to them
with a few Japanese words like "Nihon no josei ha kwaiine"
(Japanese girls are cute) and those girls followed him.
I was stunned, just stunned
because he was obviously a stranger to them.
I can go on and on about these kind of stories.
But why do Japanese girls do that?
Not only girls but also many men in Japan
have been so in love with
American and European culture for such a long long time.
A small island nation like Japan
has been always yarning for glamorous culture from abroad.
Once it was toward China for many years
and now it was toward U.S.(and Europe).
And Japanese media keeps feeding people
tons of glamorous, trendy or shocking images
of American culture like music, films, TV shows and fashion.
Therefore having sex with White or Black men
for some Japanese girls
means being f**ked by glittering glamorous American culture,
putting them into their own bodies and being one with them,
being one with something they have been longing for years.
As the result of that, some Japanese girls,
who have White or Black boyfriend or husband,
even feel like they have become higher existences
than average Japanese.
To be continued
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Gomenasai, my name is
Gomenasai, my name is Ken-Sama.
I’m a 27 year old American Otaku (Anime fan for you gaijins). I draw Anime and Manga on my tablet, and spend my days perfecting my art and playing superior Japanese games. (Disgaea, Final Fantasy, Persona series)
I train with my Katana every day, this superior weapon can cut clean through steel because it is folded over a thousand times, and is vastly superior to any other weapon on earth. I earned my sword license two years ago, and I have been getting better every day.
I speak Japanese fluently, both Kanji and the Osaka dialect, and I write fluently as well. I know everything about Japanese history and their bushido code, which I follow 100%
When I get my Japanese visa, I am moving to Tokyo to attend a prestigious High School to learn more about their magnificent culture. I hope I can become an animator for Studio Ghibli or a game designer!
I own several kimonos, which I wear around town. I want to get used to wearing them before I move to Japan, so I can fit in easier. I bow to my elders and seniors and speak Japanese as often as I can, but rarely does anyone manage to respond.
Wish me luck in Japan!
I would ask you to stay away
I would ask you to stay away from this site. Your comments are not relevant to the subject of this board -- see the top page for the intended discussion threads. Your commentary is of no value to this particular board and I advise you to seek another forum for self-expression.
Wish you the best in your stay in Japan
And who are you?
And who are you?
Does this Filipino girl really like me? Or lying?
I've been talking to this filipino girl for about a week. I'm 21, she's 20. I know it's not very long, but I've already found out a few things, and I confronted her about it. I'll explain the situation to you. I'm not sure if she really likes me, or she's just making it up and just trying to find a husband so she can come to the US. I think it's the latter, but I'll go over it and see what you think. Here's a quick skim of the events:
When we first met, I messaged her, we exchanged a few messages, and she asked me for my Skype. Talked on Skype for a bit, exchanged Facebooks. Found out she has two Facebooks. The one I have added, she is 20 and single. The other Facebook, she is 29 and in a relationship. I asked her about it, she didn't know about the second Facebook, asked me to link her to it. I did. Minutes later, that account blocked me. She said it wasn't her. Then it unblocked me. She said that was her ex-bf and he controls the account. She has no control over it. Then, "she" links "me" to another guy's Facebook where they are engaged. She kept saying things like "Well it's up to you if you don't believe me or not, etc." And a few times she said she'll leave me alone, delete me, and I won't ever have to speak to her again. Of course, I kept messaging her because I wanted the truth. Finally after talking and proving things for over an hour, she admits the second FB is her account. After another hour or so of talking, this is what was explained:
The engagement was a Facebook engagement, like some people do for fun when they're in a relationship. That was over a year ago. (I believe this because it just says the guy is engaged, but not to who, meaning they broke up and he just hasn't changed his status.) The second Facebook is hers. She does have a boyfriend, but he is always busy and doesn't have time for her. That's why she talks to people online. The reason she lied about it and didn't want me to find out was because she likes me. Then she said she is going to feel shy to talk to me now that I know all of her secrets. This all happened yesterday. We have talked just a little bit today through text, but not on cam or mic. It would just feel awkward right now.
Anyway, I figured maybe she is just looking for a husband so she can come to the USA, and doesn't really like me. She's nice and all, but then again Filipino girls can be really secretive and deceptive. However, there are a few things she did other than just "being nice" that I wouldn't think a girl would do if she really liked someone. I could be wrong and she could just be really good at this, but still.
1. She always wants to hear me sing. I'm not sure why. I'm not really a good singer, but she likes to hear me sing and claps when I'm done?
2. She sort of...indirectly invited me to the Philippines? Basically, I mentioned an event in the Philippines and asked her when it was (just to make conversation), but then after telling me she's like "Why, do you wanna come?"
3. For a few days, she taught me her language. I didn't ask. She just asked me about it and was like "Do you want to learn?" and started sending/saying random lines and what they mean.
4. She tells me I need to smile more, and that I always look angry.
5. If there was ever a few minutes of silence, or if she heard me typing, she would always apologize and say I must be busy and she'll let me go. I have to keep telling her "I'm not busy."
A few of these things, I wouldn't think a Filipino girl would bother doing if they just intended to find a husband. And I'm not sure if she was telling the truth about her lies or not. It's pretty bad to lie for that long, for over an hour, but then she claims it was because she liked me?
Also, for some weird reason, after that conversation, when I left, I had a message on Skype from her. She told me (in her language) that she loved me. I asked her about it the next day, but she said she didn't even say it. So...yeah.
Any help here? We're still talking now. We haven't talked about yesterday at all, although she openly talks about both Facebook accounts. I asked what she was doing. Her reply "Playing this game on one Facebook, playing this game on the other."
Should I run? Or give her a chance? I could just stay as friends with her, but what if it goes beyond that? Give her a chance, or not go that far?
Don't even believe a Filipina
The Filipinas are ALWAYS after only money or a green card, in EVERY case. They're worse than Vietnamese. Do NOT proceed. You will regret it.
I agree. Filipinas are ALWAYS
I agree. Filipinas are ALWAYS trying to get into your wallet. They are beggars, thrives, whores and the lowest form of filthy bottom feeders.
Heads Up
Filipino women are the most devious, dishonest piles of shit ever to come out of a baboons ass!
They are the ultimate Passport Hunters.
Trust me you don't want to go down that rabbit hole.
I know several people that married Filipinos and they all have the same story.
1) They will always ask you to send money back to the Phililipines because their family is poor.
2) Some relative back in the Phililipines will always need something like a TV, DVD player, etc....and you are EXPECTED to pay for it since you are a "rich foreigner".
3) If you don't cough up the money then it's "no money no honey"... get who isn't going to get any pussy? YOU.
4) They aren't called LBFMs (Little Brown Fuck Machines) for nothing. They will cheat on you with at least one other guy. THey are always on the look out for someone who will spend money on them.
This might send like a generalization but to date I have not met one that doesn't do one or all of the above mentioned.
If you were looking for a poster child for Money Grubbing Whore then there would be a Filipino girls face on it.
Update : She's not a gold
Update : She's not a gold digger. She has a job. She hasn't asked me for a penny or even indirectly mentioned it. Also, I forgot to mention that she wasn't lying about her age. She just put she was 29 on her other profile because her boyfriend is 30, so I guess she wanted their ages to seem closer or something. But she really is 20.
She didnt ask for money yet
She didnt ask for money yet because your not married to her.... yet.
She doesn't want to scare you away.
Don't reply his post seriously
Because he stole this article from Yahoo! ANSWERS. Let's stop westing time for this guy. Thanks for your kind comment, anyway.